Final Post
1/12/2022 on her birthday, weeks before her diagnosis of leukemia
I believe many know by now, or will know soon, but Ruth passed away last night with me and Naomi lying in bed at her side. She went quickly after we made her Comfort care and withdrew all support. All family was present as well. Our pastors came, spoke words, and prayed over her. She is finally at peace. She fought valiantly. She is with God now, fully whole again. At least that’s what I whole heartedly believe. Prayers were answered, not how I would have wanted it, but I trust in God’s will and plan for me, Naomi, the family and all those effected by Ruth’s passing. That includes the ripple effect to all you readers. I am thankful to be surrounded by such a strong community of friends and family, who reached out and helped out in enumerous ways. I’m sad, and will dearly miss the love of my life. But I will recover. Naomi is doing well so far and I know she is a resilient little girl. She will miss her mamma. I will do my best to learn to braid hair.
My prayer now will be for all to be well with my soul, and those closest to her - much like the song, “It is Well with my Soul” as written by Horacio Spafford in 1876. If you don’t know the story behind it, look it up; and of course, you’ve got to listen to it.
Signing off for good…Memorial Service for friends and family to come
Roy
Josie and I are SO very sorry for your loss. It's hard to find words. Ruth was a blessing to us and so many others. We praise God for her faith and yours, as you continue to trust him even in the worst of times. You WILL see Ruth again. Roy & Naomi, we pray that God will bring you comfort, hope, and the peace that is beyond all understanding. We pray the same for Ruth's family and all who were close to her.
ReplyDeletePrayers sent to you and your family my friend.
ReplyDeleteShe now rest high on that mountain. S he gave a good fight, and left us to soon. She now has a new body in heaven with no more pain or suffering, she will be with you always, and may your Sorrow pass quickly and remember the memories left . A piece of your heart is with her in heaven as she watches over you and Naomi now from above.. I will still keep your family in my prayers.
Our deepest condolences to you, Naomi and your family! Ruth was a fighter and left us a legacy of courage, resilience, faith, and love! It's comforting to know that Ruth is at peace with no more pain nor suffering and it's well with her soul! May you be comforted by the love of God, family, and friends during this time of grief! We pray for Ruth's celebration of life and will keep you, Naomi, and your family in our hearts and prayers in the days and weeks ahead. ❤️
ReplyDeleteOur hearts break for you and Naomi. I'm so sorry. Ruth was an amazing woman and friend. Praying for peace and comfort in the days ahead. We love you all.
ReplyDeletesending the biggest hugs & prayers for comfort to you, Naomi and the family. our hearts were crushed upon seeing the news. Ruth was such a joy to know & see at church way back when, i am so grateful to have known her. Roy, you have been so strong & faithful. may the lord give you much comfort, rest, & peace in your grief/all the feelings in these coming days. we will continue praying for you all & our hearts go out to you. we will miss Ruth. -the larsens
ReplyDeleteDeepest condolences to you and sweet Naomi. So grateful that you both will see your dear Ruth again. Will be praying for you both often in the coming days. May God continually comfort your hearts as only He can do.
ReplyDeleteI am deeply saddened by the passing of Ruth. She fought so hard for so long and is now reaping her reward with Jesus. My prayers go out to you and Naomi.
ReplyDeleteDeepest condolences. We are praying for you, Naomi and the family. Ruth was a strong individual, in her faith and as a person. She fought the good fight. She loved and lived well. She will be missed by many but someday, we who believe will see her again. Thank you for all your posts, for sharing your life and testimony with us. Your faith is an encouragement. We will pray for comfort for your soul in the days ahead and for God to bring comfort and peace.
ReplyDeleteI really thought she was going to pull through. I was cheering her on daily and because she had been through so much, I thought her superhuman strength would pull her through. Sending lots of love to you, Naomi and to all the family and friends. ❤️
ReplyDeleteWe grieve with you brother. May you find some peace during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteRoy, Naomi and family. I’m at a loss of words have been reading your posts and continually thinking of Ruth and praying for your family. I pray that you and your family can experience a part of the peace that Ruth is feeling right now. Praying for comfort and support to continue to poor your way this season.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine what your family is going through, but I hope you are able to lean on our Father in Heaven and your community on earth as we weep alongside you. Just as God was with you through this journey, He will be with you and your family as you learn how to navigate life now.
ReplyDeleteWe know Ruth is now living in paradise, free from all her pain of her earthly body. I hope you can give yourselves grace in this time of so much hurt and grieving on this side of eternity. The One Who overcame death once and for all is holding her in her arms.
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” - Revelation 21:4
My condolences praying for your family comfort, support strength that can only come from God.🙏
ReplyDeleteHeart …. broken. So sorry to hear this news. Praying for you, naomi and family. We have hope that she is in a better place now, but i know that this doesn’t dimmish the reality of loss.
ReplyDeleteYou have been a very devoted husband to Ruth, and her a lovely person with a valiant soul and a light that wasn’t dimmed by her cancel battles. May God give you and your family the peace and comfort only He can provide. Sending you lots of love.
ReplyDeleteContinued prayers to comfort you all left behind, as Ruth is with our Heavenly Father and where we all seek to be when our time comes. Sending love and light from afar. We were blessed to have met and spent time with Ruth. She was nothing short of an amazing human being all around.
ReplyDeleteRoy…we grieve with you. Words are so insufficient. The newer version of that song has been on my heart this whole past month as I thought of Ruth and your family. The outcome none of us wanted is hard to accept, but in the grief there is joy in knowing she is restored and living as she was created to be. I can only imagine all the incredible adventures she’s having now. You and Naomi remain in our prayers now more than ever. Thank you for sharing your Ruth with us. -CJ & John
ReplyDeleteRoy, we are heartbroken. We continue to pray for you and Naomi. May you find comfort and rest and see his great love for you. 1 John 4:16 And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
ReplyDeletePlease know you and Naomi are LOVED and Ruth will NEVER be forgotten! ❤️💔
ReplyDeleteMissing Ruth and her beautiful laugh. Praying daily for the peace that surpasses all understanding and praying that both you and Naomi feel wrapped in love. Ryan and Katy
ReplyDeleteRoy and Naomi, we are deeply sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Your family is so unimaginably strong. There are no words to make it better but we continue to pray for peace and comfort. Our hearts are with you. ❤️ the Aaberg family
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you Roy.
ReplyDeleteDear Roy and Noami, thank you so much for updating this heartbreaking news out of your deep faith and love for Jesus and His Body! We cherish Ruth's legacy. We treasure the amazing Love Story and faith in Him you both display - even in the midst of the hardest challenges and losses. Our two young sons led Bob & me in prayers every night for the past few months for Ruth. What a privilege it has been to intercede for His mercy at the throne of Grace along with you all. Our hearts grieve alongside yours. We also hold on to the dear and real hope of being able to see Ruth again: whole and free! We love you and keep you and your family in prayers. May the Holy Spirit covers you with His mercy and faithful goodness for the entire grieving process - even as you try to live Ruth's victory forward as you already are doing. Lord, Faithful is Your Name. Itoe & Bob
ReplyDeleteHugs to both of you and those who loved her. I can teach you how to braid anytime. 💜
ReplyDeleteGone but NEVER forgotten! So much LOVE to you, Naomi and everyone that LOVED Ruth!!!
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